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  • IS MY HUSBAND GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BI?:
    A GUIDE FOR WOMEN CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR MEN

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    ABOUT THE BOOK

    Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? addresses a topic that many people may have experience with but don’t know where to go to find the answers. At a time when the definition of marriage is changing, and relationships in general may be fraught with uncertainty about a variety of basic issues, this book addresses the concerns of women who suspect their men are gay or have gay tendencies. It can help make sense of a confusing situation and reveal ways in which couples can understand a man’s interest in gay sex and remain married, even happily.

    TABLE OF CONTENTS

    I: WHAT IS HAPPENING?

    1. Jennifer’s Conundrum: Straight Men Who Want Sex with Men
    2. Tom’s Compulsion: Why Would a Straight Man Want To Have Sex with Men?
    3. An Irresistible Humiliation: Joel Loves Cuckolding
    4. David Wants a Knock on His Back Door: Is He Gay?
    5. Adam Must Be the Master: BDSM as an Identity
    6. Carlos’s Anxiety: Men Who Obsess about Being Gay
    7. Sam Won’t Cheat on Jillian: What Are the Bisexual Options?
    8. Does Jacob Have to Leave Katelyn? : The Gay Husband
    9. A Landscape of Identity and Desire: Straight Men Who Seem Gay

    II: WHAT CAN YOU DO?

    1. His Secret Sex Life: Recovering from Betrayal
    2. Core Sexual Scripts: Gateway to Understanding Troubling Sexual Behavior
    3. Are You What You Orgasm?: Kinks That “Look Gay”
    4. Your Man Is Gay or Bisexual: Now What?
    5. Sex Fantasies and Sex Talk: How Much Do You Need to Know?
    6. Writing It Down: A Joint Agreement about Sexual Boundaries
    7. Why Else Do Straight Men Have Sex with Men?: A Miscellany
    8. Next Steps: What Do I Ask after I Ask, “Is My Husband Gay?”

    Appendix. How To Keep Your Therapy On Track
    Bibliography.